您使用私有/受保护/公共权限控制成员和函数的访问权限? 所以假设这3个层面中的每一个都很清楚，那么很明显我们遗漏了一些东西……

例如，将成员/函数声明为protected是非常通用的。你的意思是，这个功能对每个人来说都是遥不可及的(当然，继承的孩子除外)。但是异常呢?每个安全系统都让你有某种类型的“白名单”，对吗?

所以，“朋友”让你拥有坚如磐石的对象隔离的灵活性，但也允许为你认为合理的事情创造一个“漏洞”。

我想人们之所以说不需要它，是因为总有一种设计可以不需要它。我认为这类似于讨论全局变量:你永远不应该使用它们，总有办法不用它们……但在现实中，你会看到在某些情况下，这是(几乎)最优雅的方式……我认为朋友之间也是如此。

它实际上没有任何好处，除了让你在不使用设置函数的情况下访问成员变量

但这并不是正确的看法。 其理念是控制WHO可以访问什么，是否有设置功能与此关系不大。

在为类实现树算法时，教授给我们的框架代码将树类作为节点类的朋友。

它实际上没有任何好处，除了让你在不使用设置函数的情况下访问成员变量。

可能我从上面的答案中漏掉了一些东西，但是封装中另一个重要的概念是隐藏实现。减少对私有数据成员(类的实现细节)的访问，可以更容易地修改代码。如果朋友直接访问私有数据，对实现数据字段(私有数据)的任何更改都会破坏访问该数据的代码。使用访问方法可以很大程度上消除这种情况。我认为相当重要。

In C++ "friend" keyword is useful in Operator overloading and Making Bridge. 1.) Friend keyword in operator overloading :Example for operator overloading is: Let say we have a class "Point" that has two float variable"x"(for x-coordinate) and "y"(for y-coordinate). Now we have to overload "<<"(extraction operator) such that if we call "cout << pointobj" then it will print x and y coordinate (where pointobj is an object of class Point). To do this we have two option: 1.Overload "operator <<()" function in "ostream" class. 2.Overload "operator<<()" function in "Point" class. Now First option is not good because if we need to overload again this operator for some different class then we have to again make change in "ostream" class. That's why second is best option. Now compiler can call "operator <<()" function:

   1.Using ostream object cout.As: cout.operator<<(Pointobj) (form ostream class).
   2.Call without an object.As: operator<<(cout, Pointobj) (from Point class).

Beacause we have implemented overloading in Point class. So to call this function without an object we have to add"friend" keyword because we can call a friend function without an object. Now function declaration will be As: "friend ostream &operator<<(ostream &cout, Point &pointobj);" 2.) Friend keyword in making bridge : Suppose we have to make a function in which we have to access private member of two or more classes ( generally termed as "bridge" ) . How to do this: To access private member of a class it should be member of that class. Now to access private member of other class every class should declare that function as a friend function. For example : Suppose there are two class A and B. A function "funcBridge()" want to access private member of both classes. Then both class should declare "funcBridge()" as: friend return_type funcBridge(A &a_obj, B & b_obj);I think this would help to understand friend keyword.

看来我迟到了14年。但情况是这样的。

TLDR TLDR

有了友类，您就可以将封装扩展到组成数据结构的类组。

TLDR

Your data structure in general consists of multiple classes. Similarly to a traditional class (supported by your programming language), your data structure is a generalized class which also has data and invariants on that data which spans across objects of multiple classes. Encapsulation protects those invariants against accidental modification of the data from the outside, so that the data-structure's operations ("member functions") work correctly. Friend classes extend encapsulation from classes to your generalized class.

太长

类是一种数据类型，它带有指定数据类型值子集(称为有效状态)的不变量。对象是类的有效状态。类的成员函数将给定对象从有效状态移动到另一个有效状态。

对象数据不能从类成员函数外部修改，这一点很重要，因为这可能会破坏类不变量(即将对象移动到无效状态)。封装禁止从类外部访问对象数据。这是编程语言的一个重要安全特性，因为它使无意中破坏类不变量变得很困难。

类通常是实现数据结构的自然选择，因为数据结构的属性(例如性能)依赖于其数据上的不变量(例如红黑树不变量)。然而，有时单个类不足以描述一个数据结构。

数据结构是将数据从有效状态移动到另一有效状态的数据、不变量和函数的任何集合。这是一个类的泛化。细微的区别在于，数据可能分散在不同的数据类型上，而不是集中在单一的数据类型上。

数据结构示例

A prototypical example of a data structure is a graph which is stored using separate objects for vertices (class Vertex), edges (class Edge), and the graph (class Graph). These classes do not make sense independently. The Graph class creates Vertexs and Edges by its member functions (e.g. graph.addVertex() and graph.addEdge(aVertex, bVertex)) and returns pointers (or similar) to them. Vertexs and Edges are similarly destroyed by their owning Graph (e.g. graph.removeVertex(vertex) and graph.removeEdge(edge)). The collection of Vertex objects, Edge objects and the Graph object together encode a mathematical graph. In this example the intention is that Vertex/Edge objects are not shared between Graph objects (other design choices are also possible).

一个Graph对象可以存储所有顶点和边的列表，而每个顶点可以存储一个指向其所属Graph的指针。因此，Graph对象表示整个数学图，只要需要数学图，就可以传递它。

不变的例子

图数据结构的一个不变量是顶点被列在它的所有者图的列表中。这个不变量跨越了Vertex对象和Graph对象。多个类型的多个对象可以参与给定的不变量。

封装的例子

与类类似，数据结构得益于封装，它可以防止数据被意外修改。这是因为数据结构需要保留不变量，以便能够以承诺的方式运行，就像类一样。

In the graph data structure example, you would state that Vertex is a friend of Graph, and also make the constructors and data-members of Vertex private so that a Vertex can only be created and modified by Graph. In particular, Vertex would have a private constructor which accepts a pointer to its owning graph. This constructor is called in graph.addVertex(), which is possible because Vertex is a friend of Graph. (But note that Graph is not a friend of Vertex: there is no need for Vertex to be able to access Graph's vertex-list, say.)

术语

数据结构的定义本身就像一个类。我建议我们开始使用术语“广义类”来描述将数据从有效状态移动到另一有效状态的任何数据集、不变量和函数。c++类是广义类的一种特殊类型。不言而喻，友类是将封装从c++类扩展到广义类的精确机制。

(事实上，我希望用“广义类”的概念取代“类”，并使用“本机类”来表示编程语言支持的类的特殊情况。然后，在教授类时，您将学习本机类和这些广义类。但这可能会令人困惑。)

在做TDD的时候，我经常使用c++中的'friend'关键字。朋友能知道我的一切吗?

不，这只是一种单向的友谊。