我使用下面的方法，对我来说很好，

class MyTableViewCell : UITableViewCell {

                var defaultStateColor:UIColor?
                var hitStateColor:UIColor?

                 override func awakeFromNib(){
                     super.awakeFromNib()
                     self.selectionStyle = .None
                 }

// if you are overriding init you should set selectionStyle = .None

                override func touchesBegan(touches: Set<UITouch>, withEvent event: UIEvent?) {
                    if let hitColor = hitStateColor {
                        self.contentView.backgroundColor = hitColor
                    }
                }

                override func touchesEnded(touches: Set<UITouch>, withEvent event: UIEvent?) {
                    if let defaultColor = defaultStateColor {
                        self.contentView.backgroundColor = defaultColor
                    }
                }

                override func touchesCancelled(touches: Set<UITouch>?, withEvent event: UIEvent?) {
                    if let defaultColor = defaultStateColor {
                        self.contentView.backgroundColor = defaultColor
                    }
                }
            }

为所有单元格添加背景(使用Maciej的答案):

for (int section = 0; section < [self.tableView numberOfSections]; section++) {
        for (int row = 0; row < [self.tableView numberOfRowsInSection:section]; row++) {
            NSIndexPath* cellPath = [NSIndexPath indexPathForRow:row inSection:section];
            UITableViewCell* cell = [self.tableView cellForRowAtIndexPath:cellPath];

            //stuff to do with each cell
            UIView *bgColorView = [[UIView alloc] init];
            bgColorView.backgroundColor = [UIColor redColor];
            [cell setSelectedBackgroundView:bgColorView];
        }
    } 

- (void)tableView:(UITableView *)tableView didSelectRowAtIndexPath:(NSIndexPath *)indexPath
{
    [tableView reloadData];
    UITableViewCell *cell=(UITableViewCell*)[tableView cellForRowAtIndexPath:indexPath];
    [cell setBackgroundColor:[UIColor orangeColor]];
}

对于那些只想摆脱默认选择灰色背景的人，把这行代码放在你的cellForRowAtIndexPath func中:

yourCell.selectionStyle = .None

再一个提示基督教的方式显示圆角背景分组表。

如果我为单元格使用cornerRadius = 10，它会显示四个角的圆角选择背景。这和表格视图的默认UI不一样。

所以，我想用简单的方法来解决它。 正如你可以从下面的代码中看到的，检查单元格的位置(顶部，底部，中间或顶部底部)，并添加更多的子层来隐藏顶部角或底部角。这只是显示了与默认表视图的选择背景完全相同的外观。

我用iPad splitterview测试了这段代码。你可以根据需要改变patchLayer的帧位置。

请让我知道是否有更简单的方法来达到同样的效果。

if (tableView.style == UITableViewStyleGrouped) 
{
    if (indexPath.row == 0) 
    {
        cellPosition = CellGroupPositionAtTop;
    }    
    else 
    {
        cellPosition = CellGroupPositionAtMiddle;
    }

    NSInteger numberOfRows = [tableView numberOfRowsInSection:indexPath.section];
    if (indexPath.row == numberOfRows - 1) 
    {
        if (cellPosition == CellGroupPositionAtTop) 
        {
            cellPosition = CellGroupPositionAtTopAndBottom;
        } 
        else 
        {
            cellPosition = CellGroupPositionAtBottom;
        }
    }

    if (cellPosition != CellGroupPositionAtMiddle) 
    {
        bgColorView.layer.cornerRadius = 10;
        CALayer *patchLayer;
        if (cellPosition == CellGroupPositionAtTop) 
        {
            patchLayer = [CALayer layer];
            patchLayer.frame = CGRectMake(0, 10, 302, 35);
            patchLayer.backgroundColor = YOUR_BACKGROUND_COLOR;
            [bgColorView.layer addSublayer:patchLayer];
        } 
        else if (cellPosition == CellGroupPositionAtBottom) 
        {
            patchLayer = [CALayer layer];
            patchLayer.frame = CGRectMake(0, 0, 302, 35);
            patchLayer.backgroundColor = YOUR_BACKGROUND_COLOR;
            [bgColorView.layer addSublayer:patchLayer];
        }
    }
}

使用[cell setClipsToBounds:YES];对于分组样式单元格