你应该尝试非常有用的sp_whoIsActive过程，可以在这里找到:http://whoisactive.com，它是免费的。

正确的脚本应该是这样的:

select 
p.spid, p.status,p.hostname,p.loginame,p.cpu,r.start_time, t.text
    from sys.dm_exec_requests as r, sys.sysprocesses p 
    cross apply sys.dm_exec_sql_text(p.sql_handle) t
    where p.status not in ('sleeping', 'background')
    and r.session_id=p.spid

这将显示在SQL 2000或SQL 2005服务器上运行时间最长的spid:

select
    P.spid
,   right(convert(varchar, 
            dateadd(ms, datediff(ms, P.last_batch, getdate()), '1900-01-01'), 
            121), 12) as 'batch_duration'
,   P.program_name
,   P.hostname
,   P.loginame
from master.dbo.sysprocesses P
where P.spid > 50
and      P.status not in ('background', 'sleeping')
and      P.cmd not in ('AWAITING COMMAND'
                    ,'MIRROR HANDLER'
                    ,'LAZY WRITER'
                    ,'CHECKPOINT SLEEP'
                    ,'RA MANAGER')
order by batch_duration desc

如果你需要从结果中看到一个给定spid的SQL运行，可以使用这样的方法:

declare
    @spid int
,   @stmt_start int
,   @stmt_end int
,   @sql_handle binary(20)

set @spid = XXX -- Fill this in

select  top 1
    @sql_handle = sql_handle
,   @stmt_start = case stmt_start when 0 then 0 else stmt_start / 2 end
,   @stmt_end = case stmt_end when -1 then -1 else stmt_end / 2 end
from    sys.sysprocesses
where   spid = @spid
order by ecid

SELECT
    SUBSTRING(  text,
            COALESCE(NULLIF(@stmt_start, 0), 1),
            CASE @stmt_end
                WHEN -1
                    THEN DATALENGTH(text)
                ELSE
                    (@stmt_end - @stmt_start)
                END
        )
FROM ::fn_get_sql(@sql_handle)

你可以使用下面的查询来查找正在运行的最后一个请求:

SELECT
    der.session_id
    ,est.TEXT AS QueryText
    ,der.status
    ,der.blocking_session_id
    ,der.cpu_time
    ,der.total_elapsed_time
FROM sys.dm_exec_requests AS der
CROSS APPLY sys.dm_exec_sql_text(sql_handle) AS est

使用下面的脚本，你还可以找到每个数据库的连接数:

SELECT 
    DB_NAME(DBID) AS DataBaseName
    ,COUNT(DBID) AS NumberOfConnections
    ,LogiName 
FROM sys.sysprocesses
WHERE DBID > 0
GROUP BY DBID, LogiName

详情请浏览: http://www.dbrnd.com/2015/06/script-to-find-running-process-session-logged-user-in-sql-server/

您可以运行sp_who命令来获取当前所有用户、会话和进程的列表。然后你可以对任何阻挡其他蜘蛛运行KILL命令。

试图把事情放在一起(希望有帮助):

SELECT
    p.spid,
    RIGHT(CONVERT(varchar, DATEADD(ms, DATEDIFF(ms, p.last_batch, GETDATE()), '1900-01-01'), 121), 12) AS [batch_duration],
    p.[program_name],
    p.hostname,
    MAX(p.loginame) AS loginame,
    (SELECT SUBSTRING(text, COALESCE(NULLIF(spid.stmt_start, 0), 1) + 1, CASE spid.stmt_end WHEN -1 THEN DATALENGTH(text) ELSE (spid.stmt_end - spid.stmt_start) END) FROM ::fn_get_sql(spid.[sql_handle])) AS [sql]
FROM
    master.dbo.sysprocesses p
    LEFT JOIN (
        SELECT
            ROW_NUMBER() OVER(PARTITION BY spid ORDER BY ecid) AS i,
            spid,
            [sql_handle],
            CASE stmt_start WHEN 0 THEN 0 ELSE stmt_start / 2 END AS stmt_start,
            CASE stmt_end WHEN -1 THEN -1 ELSE stmt_end / 2 END AS stmt_end
        FROM sys.sysprocesses
    ) spid ON p.spid = spid.spid AND spid.i = 1
WHERE
    p.spid > 50
    AND p.status NOT IN ('background', 'sleeping')
    AND p.cmd NOT IN ('AWAITING COMMAND', 'MIRROR HANDLER', 'LAZY WRITER', 'CHECKPOINT SLEEP', 'RA MANAGER')
GROUP BY
    p.spid,
    p.last_batch,
    p.[program_name],
    p.hostname,
    spid.stmt_start,
    spid.stmt_end,
    spid.[sql_handle]
ORDER BY
    batch_duration DESC,
    p.spid
;