您需要使用样式@style.xml，例如CustomDialog来显示可自定义的对话框。

<style name="CustomDialog" parent="@android:style/Theme.DeviceDefault.Light.Dialog">
    <item name="android:windowIsTranslucent">true</item>
    <item name="android:windowBackground">@color/colorWhite</item>
    <item name="android:editTextColor">@color/colorBlack</item>
    <item name="android:windowContentOverlay">@null</item>
    <item name="android:windowNoTitle">true</item>
    <item name="android:backgroundDimEnabled">true</item>
    <item name="android:windowIsFloating">true</item>
    <item name="android:windowSoftInputMode">stateUnspecified|adjustPan</item>
</style>

在activity。java中使用这种样式

Dialog dialog = new Dialog(Activity.this, R.style.CustomDialog);
dialog.requestWindowFeature(Window.FEATURE_NO_TITLE);
dialog.setContentView(R.layout.custom_dialog);

你的custom_dialog.xml应该在你的布局目录中

<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
<LinearLayout xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"
    android:orientation="vertical"
    android:layout_width="match_parent"
    android:layout_height="match_parent"
    android:paddingLeft="10dp"
    android:paddingRight="10dp">

    <TextView
        android:layout_width="match_parent"
        android:layout_height="wrap_content"
        android:text=""
        android:textSize="20dp"
        android:id="@+id/tittle_text_view"
        android:textColor="@color/colorBlack"
        android:layout_marginTop="20dp"
        android:layout_marginLeft="10dp"/>

    <LinearLayout
        android:layout_width="match_parent"
        android:layout_height="wrap_content"
        android:orientation="horizontal"
        android:layout_marginLeft="20dp"
        android:layout_marginBottom="10dp"
        android:layout_marginTop="20dp"
        android:layout_marginRight="20dp">

        <EditText
            android:id="@+id/edit_text_first"
            android:layout_width="50dp"
            android:layout_height="match_parent"
            android:hint="0"
            android:inputType="number" />

        <TextView
            android:id="@+id/text_view_first"
            android:layout_width="wrap_content"
            android:layout_height="match_parent"
            android:layout_marginLeft="5dp"
            android:gravity="center"/>

        <EditText
            android:id="@+id/edit_text_second"
            android:layout_width="50dp"
            android:layout_height="match_parent"
            android:hint="0"
            android:layout_marginLeft="5dp"
            android:inputType="number" />

        <TextView
            android:id="@+id/text_view_second"
            android:layout_width="wrap_content"
            android:layout_height="match_parent"
            android:layout_marginLeft="5dp"
            android:gravity="center"/>

    </LinearLayout>

</LinearLayout>

下面的方法对我来说效果不错:

    <style name="MyAlertDialogTheme" parent="Base.Theme.AppCompat.Light.Dialog.Alert">
        <item name="windowFixedWidthMajor">90%</item>
        <item name="windowFixedWidthMinor">90%</item>
    </style>

(注:windowMinWidthMajor/Minor，如之前的答案所建议的，没有做到这一点。我的对话框不断改变大小取决于内容)

然后:

AlertDialog.Builder builder = new AlertDialog.Builder(getActivity(), R.style.MyAlertDialogTheme);

到目前为止我能想到的最简单的方法

如果你的对话框是由垂直线性布局组成的，只需添加一个“高度填充”虚拟视图，它将占据屏幕的整个高度。

例如:

<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
<LinearLayout xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"
          android:orientation="vertical"
          android:layout_width="match_parent"
          android:layout_height="match_parent"
          android:weightSum="1">

    <EditText
       android:layout_width="match_parent"
       android:layout_height="wrap_content"
       android:id="@+id/editSearch" />

    <ListView
       android:layout_width="match_parent"
       android:layout_height="match_parent"
       android:id="@+id/listView"/>


   <!-- this is a dummy view that will make sure the dialog is highest -->
   <View
       android:layout_width="match_parent"
       android:layout_height="match_parent"
       android:layout_weight="1"/>

</LinearLayout>

注意LinearLayout属性中的android:weightSum="1"和dummy View属性中的android:layout_weight="1"

实际90%计算解:

@Override public void onStart() {
   Dialog dialog = getDialog();
   if (dialog != null) {
     dialog.getWindow()
        .setLayout((int) (getScreenWidth(getActivity()) * .9), ViewGroup.LayoutParams.MATCH_PARENT);
   }
}

其中getScreenWidth(Activity Activity)定义如下(最好放在Utils类中):

public static int getScreenWidth(Activity activity) {
   Point size = new Point();
   activity.getWindowManager().getDefaultDisplay().getSize(size);
   return size.x;
}

***In Kotlin You can Code like This : -*** 

fun customDialog(activity: Activity?, layout: Int): Dialog {
    val dialog = Dialog(activity!!)
    try {
        dialog.requestWindowFeature(Window.FEATURE_NO_TITLE)
        dialog.setCancelable(false)
        dialog.setContentView(layout)
        dialog.window!!.setBackgroundDrawable(ColorDrawable(Color.TRANSPARENT))
        dialog.window!!.setLayout(ConstraintLayout.LayoutParams.MATCH_PARENT, ConstraintLayout.LayoutParams.WRAP_CONTENT);
        dialog.show()
    } catch (e: Exception) {

    }
    return dialog
}

只要给AlertDialog这个主题

<style name="DialogTheme" parent="Theme.MaterialComponents.Light.Dialog.MinWidth">
    <item name="colorPrimary">@color/colorPrimary</item>
    <item name="android:windowMinWidthMajor">90%</item>
    <item name="android:windowMinWidthMinor">90%</item>
</style>