Mysql服务器有information_schema。REFERENTIAL_CONSTRAINTS表供参考，您可以通过表名或引用表名过滤它。

试试这个:

sp_help 'TableName'

这个答案建立在sp_fkeys的基础上，但格式化类似于sp_fkeys，适用于多个列并列出它们的顺序。

SELECT fk_obj.name    AS FK_NAME,
       pk_schema.name AS PKTABLE_OWNER,
       pk_table.name  AS PKTABLE_NAME,
       pk_column.name AS PKCOLUMN_NAME,
       fk_schema.name AS FKTABLE_OWNER,
       fk_table.name  AS FKTABLE_NAME,
       fk_column.name AS FKCOLUMN_NAME,
       ROW_NUMBER() over (
           PARTITION BY fk_obj.name, fk_schema.name
           ORDER BY fkc.constraint_column_id
           )          AS KEY_SEQ
FROM sys.foreign_key_columns fkc
         INNER JOIN sys.objects fk_obj
                    ON fk_obj.object_id = fkc.constraint_object_id
         INNER JOIN sys.tables fk_table
                    ON fk_table.object_id = fkc.parent_object_id
         INNER JOIN sys.schemas fk_schema
                    ON fk_table.schema_id = fk_schema.schema_id
         INNER JOIN sys.columns fk_column
                    ON fk_column.column_id = parent_column_id
                        AND fk_column.object_id = fk_table.object_id
         INNER JOIN sys.tables pk_table
                    ON pk_table.object_id = fkc.referenced_object_id
         INNER JOIN sys.schemas pk_schema
                    ON pk_table.schema_id = pk_schema.schema_id
         INNER JOIN sys.columns pk_column
                    ON pk_column.column_id = fkc.referenced_column_id
                        AND pk_column.object_id = pk_table.object_id;

下面是我将使用的SQL代码。

SELECT 
   f.name AS 'Name of Foreign Key',
   OBJECT_NAME(f.parent_object_id) AS 'Table name',
   COL_NAME(fc.parent_object_id,fc.parent_column_id) AS 'Fieldname',
   OBJECT_NAME(t.object_id) AS 'References Table name',
   COL_NAME(t.object_id,fc.referenced_column_id) AS 'References fieldname',

   'ALTER TABLE [' + OBJECT_NAME(f.parent_object_id) + ']  DROP CONSTRAINT [' + f.name + ']' AS 'Delete foreign key',

   'ALTER TABLE [' + OBJECT_NAME(f.parent_object_id) + ']  WITH NOCHECK ADD CONSTRAINT [' + 
        f.name + '] FOREIGN KEY([' + COL_NAME(fc.parent_object_id,fc.parent_column_id) + ']) REFERENCES ' + 
        '[' + OBJECT_NAME(t.object_id) + '] ([' +
        COL_NAME(t.object_id,fc.referenced_column_id) + '])' AS 'Create foreign key'
    -- , delete_referential_action_desc AS 'UsesCascadeDelete'
FROM sys.foreign_keys AS f,
     sys.foreign_key_columns AS fc,
     sys.tables t 
WHERE f.OBJECT_ID = fc.constraint_object_id
AND t.OBJECT_ID = fc.referenced_object_id
AND OBJECT_NAME(t.object_id) = 'Employees'      --  Just show the FKs which reference a particular table
ORDER BY 2

这不是特别清晰的SQL，所以让我们看一个例子。

所以，假设我想删除Microsoft心爱的Northwind数据库中的Employees表，但是SQL Server告诉我一个或多个外键阻止我这样做。

上面的SQL命令将返回这些结果…

它显示有3个外键引用雇员表。换句话说，除非先删除这三个外键，否则不允许删除(删除)这个表。

在结果中，第一行是以下外键约束在结果中的显示方式。

ALTER TABLE [dbo].[Employees]  WITH NOCHECK 
ADD CONSTRAINT [FK_Employees_Employees] FOREIGN KEY([ReportsTo])
REFERENCES [dbo].[Employees] ([EmployeeID])

倒数第二列显示了我需要使用的SQL命令来删除这些外键之一，例如:

ALTER TABLE [Employees] DROP CONSTRAINT [FK_Employees_Employees]

.．.右边一列显示了创建它的SQL…

ALTER TABLE [Employees] WITH NOCHECK 
ADD CONSTRAINT [FK_Employees_Employees] 
FOREIGN KEY([ReportsTo]) REFERENCES [Employees] ([EmployeeID])

使用所有这些命令，您就拥有了删除相关外键所需的一切，从而可以删除表，然后再重新创建它们。

唷。希望这能有所帮助。

Oracle SQL

select *
from
    all_constraints
where
    r_constraint_name in
    (select       constraint_name
    from
       all_constraints
    where
       table_name='PUT_THE_TABLE_NAME_HERE');

all_constraints是Oracle DB中的一个固有表名。

我将使用SQL Server Management Studio中的数据库图表功能，但既然你排除了它-这在SQL Server 2008中为我工作(没有2005)。

获取引用表和列名的列表…

select 
    t.name as TableWithForeignKey, 
    fk.constraint_column_id as FK_PartNo, c.
    name as ForeignKeyColumn 
from 
    sys.foreign_key_columns as fk
inner join 
    sys.tables as t on fk.parent_object_id = t.object_id
inner join 
    sys.columns as c on fk.parent_object_id = c.object_id and fk.parent_column_id = c.column_id
where 
    fk.referenced_object_id = (select object_id 
                               from sys.tables 
                               where name = 'TableOthersForeignKeyInto')
order by 
    TableWithForeignKey, FK_PartNo

获取外键约束的名称

select distinct name from sys.objects where object_id in 
(   select fk.constraint_object_id from sys.foreign_key_columns as fk
    where fk.referenced_object_id = 
        (select object_id from sys.tables where name = 'TableOthersForeignKeyInto')
)