我认为我将根据lnafziger接受的答案分享一些帮助方法，因为我在每个工具栏中都有多个按钮:

-(void) hideToolbarItem:(UIBarButtonItem*) button inToolbar:(UIToolbar*) toolbar{
    NSMutableArray *toolbarButtons = [toolbar.items mutableCopy];
    [toolbarButtons removeObject:button];
    [toolbar setItems:toolbarButtons animated:NO];
}

-(void) showToolbarItem:(UIBarButtonItem*) button inToolbar:(UIToolbar*) toolbar atIndex:(int) index{
    NSMutableArray *toolbarButtons = [toolbar.items mutableCopy];
    if (![toolbarButtons containsObject:button]){
        [toolbarButtons insertObject:button atIndex:index];
        [self setToolbarItems:toolbarButtons animated:YES];
    }
}

没有办法“隐藏”一个UIBarButtonItem，你必须从superView中删除它，当你想再次显示它时再添加它。

将你的按钮保存在一个强outlet中(让我们称之为myButton)，然后添加/删除它:

// Get the reference to the current toolbar buttons
NSMutableArray *toolbarButtons = [self.toolbarItems mutableCopy];

// This is how you remove the button from the toolbar and animate it
[toolbarButtons removeObject:self.myButton];
[self setToolbarItems:toolbarButtons animated:YES];

// This is how you add the button to the toolbar and animate it
if (![toolbarButtons containsObject:self.myButton]) {
    // The following line adds the object to the end of the array.  
    // If you want to add the button somewhere else, use the `insertObject:atIndex:` 
    // method instead of the `addObject` method.
    [toolbarButtons addObject:self.myButton];
    [self setToolbarItems:toolbarButtons animated:YES];
}

因为它存储在输出中，所以即使它不在工具栏上，您也将保留对它的引用。

补充Eli Burke的回应，如果你的uibarbuttonitem有一个背景图像而不是一个标题，你可以使用代码:

-(void)toggleLogoutButton:(bool)show{
    if (show) {
        self.tabButton.style = UIBarButtonItemStyleBordered;
        self.tabButton.enabled = true;
        UIImage* imageMap = [UIImage imageNamed:@"btn_img.png"];
        [((UIButton *)[self.tabButton customView]) setBackgroundImage:imageMap forState:UIControlStateNormal];
    } else {
        self.tabButton.style = UIBarButtonItemStylePlain;
        self.tabButton.enabled = false;
        [((UIButton *)[self.tabButton customView]) setBackgroundImage:nil forState:UIControlStateNormal];
    }
}

只需设置barButton。customView = UIView()，看看窍门

最后，在iOS 16+中，UIBarButtonItem有isHidden属性。

所以，扩展现有的答案，比如

extension UIBarButtonItem {
    func show() {
        if #available(iOS 16.0, *) {
            isHidden = false
        } else {
            isEnabled = true
            tintColor = .white
        }
    }
    
    func hide() {
        if #available(iOS 16.0, *) {
            isHidden = true
        } else {
            isEnabled = false
            tintColor = .clear
        }
    }
}