这是一个很长的答案列表，但为了防止有人想要一个简单的复制和粘贴的快速解决方案，这里是

func hideToolbarItem(button: UIBarButtonItem, withToolbar toolbar: UIToolbar) {
    var toolbarButtons: [UIBarButtonItem] = toolbar.items!
    toolbarButtons.removeAtIndex(toolbarButtons.indexOf(button)!)
    toolbar.setItems(toolbarButtons, animated: true)
}

func showToolbarItem(button: UIBarButtonItem, inToolbar toolbar: UIToolbar, atIndex index: Int) {
    var toolbarButtons: [UIBarButtonItem] = toolbar.items!
    if !toolbarButtons.contains(button) {
        toolbarButtons.insert(button, atIndex: index)
        toolbar.setItems(toolbarButtons, animated:true);
    }
}

我认为我将根据lnafziger接受的答案分享一些帮助方法，因为我在每个工具栏中都有多个按钮:

-(void) hideToolbarItem:(UIBarButtonItem*) button inToolbar:(UIToolbar*) toolbar{
    NSMutableArray *toolbarButtons = [toolbar.items mutableCopy];
    [toolbarButtons removeObject:button];
    [toolbar setItems:toolbarButtons animated:NO];
}

-(void) showToolbarItem:(UIBarButtonItem*) button inToolbar:(UIToolbar*) toolbar atIndex:(int) index{
    NSMutableArray *toolbarButtons = [toolbar.items mutableCopy];
    if (![toolbarButtons containsObject:button]){
        [toolbarButtons insertObject:button atIndex:index];
        [self setToolbarItems:toolbarButtons animated:YES];
    }
}

将你的按钮保存在一个强outlet中(让我们称之为myButton)，然后添加/删除它:

// Get the reference to the current toolbar buttons
NSMutableArray *toolbarButtons = [self.toolbarItems mutableCopy];

// This is how you remove the button from the toolbar and animate it
[toolbarButtons removeObject:self.myButton];
[self setToolbarItems:toolbarButtons animated:YES];

// This is how you add the button to the toolbar and animate it
if (![toolbarButtons containsObject:self.myButton]) {
    // The following line adds the object to the end of the array.  
    // If you want to add the button somewhere else, use the `insertObject:atIndex:` 
    // method instead of the `addObject` method.
    [toolbarButtons addObject:self.myButton];
    [self setToolbarItems:toolbarButtons animated:YES];
}

因为它存储在输出中，所以即使它不在工具栏上，您也将保留对它的引用。

如果你使用的是Swift 3

if (ShowCondition){
   self.navigationItem.rightBarButtonItem = self.addAsset_btn 
 } 
else {
   self.navigationItem.rightBarButtonItem = nil
 }

这里有一个简单的方法:

hide:  barbuttonItem.width = 0.01;
show:  barbuttonItem.width = 0; //(0 defaults to normal button width, which is the width of the text)

我刚刚在retina iPad上运行了它，0.01太小了，它不会显示出来。

你可以使用文本属性隐藏工具栏按钮:

barButton.enabled = false
barButton.setTitleTextAttributes([NSForegroundColorAttributeName : UIColor.clearColor()], forState: .Normal)

也看到我的解决方案与UIBarButtonItem扩展类似的问题:使UIBarButtonItem消失使用快速IOS