上面的许多答案都很好，但没有一个对我完全有效。所以我结合@nmr的答案得到了这个。

final Dialog d = new Dialog(getActivity());
        //  d.getWindow().setBackgroundDrawable(R.color.action_bar_bg);
        d.requestWindowFeature(Window.FEATURE_NO_TITLE);
        d.setContentView(R.layout.dialog_box_shipment_detail);

        WindowManager wm = (WindowManager) getActivity().getSystemService(Context.WINDOW_SERVICE); // for activity use context instead of getActivity()
        Display display = wm.getDefaultDisplay(); // getting the screen size of device
        Point size = new Point();
        display.getSize(size);
        int width = size.x - 20;  // Set your heights
        int height = size.y - 80; // set your widths

        WindowManager.LayoutParams lp = new WindowManager.LayoutParams();
        lp.copyFrom(d.getWindow().getAttributes());

        lp.width = width;
        lp.height = height;

        d.getWindow().setAttributes(lp);
        d.show();

    final AlertDialog alertDialog;

    LayoutInflater li = LayoutInflater.from(mActivity);
    final View promptsView = li.inflate(R.layout.layout_dialog_select_time, null);

    RecyclerView recyclerViewTime;
    RippleButton buttonDone;

    AlertDialog.Builder alertDialogBuilder = new AlertDialog.Builder(mActivity);
    alertDialogBuilder.setView(promptsView);

    // create alert dialog
    alertDialog = alertDialogBuilder.create();

    /**
     * setting up window design
     */
    alertDialog.requestWindowFeature(Window.FEATURE_NO_TITLE);


    alertDialog.show();

    DisplayMetrics metrics = new DisplayMetrics(); //get metrics of screen
    mActivity.getWindowManager().getDefaultDisplay().getMetrics(metrics);
    int height = (int) (metrics.heightPixels * 0.9); //set height to 90% of total
    int width = (int) (metrics.widthPixels * 0.9); //set width to 90% of total

    alertDialog.getWindow().setLayout(width, height); //set layout
    recyclerViewTime = promptsView.findViewById(R.id.recyclerViewTime);


    DialogSelectTimeAdapter dialogSelectTimeAdapter = new DialogSelectTimeAdapter(this);
    RecyclerView.LayoutManager linearLayoutManager = new LinearLayoutManager(this);
    recyclerViewTime.setLayoutManager(linearLayoutManager);
    recyclerViewTime.setAdapter(dialogSelectTimeAdapter);

    buttonDone = promptsView.findViewById(R.id.buttonDone);
    buttonDone.setOnClickListener(new View.OnClickListener() {
        @Override
        public void onClick(View view) {

            alertDialog.dismiss();

        }
    });

你必须在显示之前设置对话框的高度和宽度(dialog.show())

所以，像这样做:

dialog.getWindow().setLayout(width, height);

//then

dialog.show()

得到这段代码，我做了一些改变:

dialog.getWindow().setLayout((int)(MapGeaGtaxiActivity.this.getWindow().peekDecorView().getWidth()*0.9),(int) (MapGeaGtaxiActivity.this.getWindow().peekDecorView().getHeight()*0.9));

但是，当设备改变位置时，对话框的大小也会改变。当度量发生变化时，您可能需要自己处理。 peekDecorView，暗示在活动中的布局是正确初始化的，否则你可以使用

DisplayMetrics metrics = new DisplayMetrics();
getWindowManager().getDefaultDisplay().getMetrics(metrics);
int height = metrics.heightPixels;
int wwidth = metrics.widthPixels;

为了得到屏幕大小

***In Kotlin You can Code like This : -*** 

fun customDialog(activity: Activity?, layout: Int): Dialog {
    val dialog = Dialog(activity!!)
    try {
        dialog.requestWindowFeature(Window.FEATURE_NO_TITLE)
        dialog.setCancelable(false)
        dialog.setContentView(layout)
        dialog.window!!.setBackgroundDrawable(ColorDrawable(Color.TRANSPARENT))
        dialog.window!!.setLayout(ConstraintLayout.LayoutParams.MATCH_PARENT, ConstraintLayout.LayoutParams.WRAP_CONTENT);
        dialog.show()
    } catch (e: Exception) {

    }
    return dialog
}

你必须在显示之前设置对话框的高度和宽度(dialog.show())

所以，像这样做:

dialog.getWindow().setLayout(width, height);

//then

dialog.show()

您可以使用百分比(JUST)窗口对话框宽度。

看看这个来自Holo Theme的例子:

<style name="Theme.Holo.Dialog.NoActionBar.MinWidth">
    <item name="android:windowMinWidthMajor">@android:dimen/dialog_min_width_major</item>
    <item name="android:windowMinWidthMinor">@android:dimen/dialog_min_width_minor</item>
</style>

 <!-- The platform's desired minimum size for a dialog's width when it
     is along the major axis (that is the screen is landscape).  This may
     be either a fraction or a dimension. -->
<item type="dimen" name="dialog_min_width_major">65%</item>

你所需要做的就是扩展这个主题，并将“Major”和“Minor”的值改为90%而不是65%。

的问候。