public static TValue GetFieldValue<TValue>(this object instance, string name)
{
    var type = instance.GetType(); 
    var field = type.GetFields(BindingFlags.NonPublic | BindingFlags.Static | BindingFlags.Instance).FirstOrDefault(e => typeof(TValue).IsAssignableFrom(e.FieldType) && e.Name == name);
    return (TValue)field?.GetValue(instance);
}

public static TValue GetPropertyValue<TValue>(this object instance, string name)
{
    var type = instance.GetType();
    var field = type.GetProperties(BindingFlags.NonPublic | BindingFlags.Static | BindingFlags.Instance).FirstOrDefault(e => typeof(TValue).IsAssignableFrom(e.PropertyType) && e.Name == name);
    return (TValue)field?.GetValue(instance);
}

捷径....

var a = new Test { Id = 1 , Name = "A" , date = DateTime.Now};
var b = new Test { Id = 1 , Name = "AXXX", date = DateTime.Now };

var compare = string.Join("",a.GetType().GetProperties().Select(x => x.GetValue(a)).ToArray())==
              string.Join("",b.GetType().GetProperties().Select(x => x.GetValue(b)).ToArray());

这是我的解决方案。它也适用于COM对象，并允许从COM对象访问集合/数组项。

public static object GetPropValue(this object obj, string name)
{
    foreach (string part in name.Split('.'))
    {
        if (obj == null) { return null; }

        Type type = obj.GetType();
        if (type.Name == "__ComObject")
        {
            if (part.Contains('['))
            {
                string partWithoundIndex = part;
                int index = ParseIndexFromPropertyName(ref partWithoundIndex);
                obj = Versioned.CallByName(obj, partWithoundIndex, CallType.Get, index);
            }
            else
            {
                obj = Versioned.CallByName(obj, part, CallType.Get);
            }
        }
        else
        {
            PropertyInfo info = type.GetProperty(part);
            if (info == null) { return null; }
            obj = info.GetValue(obj, null);
        }
    }
    return obj;
}

private static int ParseIndexFromPropertyName(ref string name)
{
    int index = -1;
    int s = name.IndexOf('[') + 1;
    int e = name.IndexOf(']');
    if (e < s)
    {
        throw new ArgumentException();
    }
    string tmp = name.Substring(s, e - s);
    index = Convert.ToInt32(tmp);
    name = name.Substring(0, s - 1);
    return index;
}

以下是我根据其他答案得出的结论。把错误处理弄得这么具体，有点过分了。

public static T GetPropertyValue<T>(object sourceInstance, string targetPropertyName, bool throwExceptionIfNotExists = false)
{
    string errorMsg = null;

    try
    {
        if (sourceInstance == null || string.IsNullOrWhiteSpace(targetPropertyName))
        {
            errorMsg = $"Source object is null or property name is null or whitespace. '{targetPropertyName}'";
            Log.Warn(errorMsg);

            if (throwExceptionIfNotExists)
                throw new ArgumentException(errorMsg);
            else
                return default(T);
        }

        Type returnType = typeof(T);
        Type sourceType = sourceInstance.GetType();

        PropertyInfo propertyInfo = sourceType.GetProperty(targetPropertyName, returnType);
        if (propertyInfo == null)
        {
            errorMsg = $"Property name '{targetPropertyName}' of type '{returnType}' not found for source object of type '{sourceType}'";
            Log.Warn(errorMsg);

            if (throwExceptionIfNotExists)
                throw new ArgumentException(errorMsg);
            else
                return default(T);
        }

        return (T)propertyInfo.GetValue(sourceInstance, null);
    }
    catch(Exception ex)
    {
        errorMsg = $"Problem getting property name '{targetPropertyName}' from source instance.";
        Log.Error(errorMsg, ex);

        if (throwExceptionIfNotExists)
            throw;
    }

    return default(T);
}

 public static object GetPropValue(object src, string propName)
 {
     return src.GetType().GetProperty(propName).GetValue(src, null);
 }

当然，您会想要添加验证和诸如此类的东西，但这就是它的要点。

在. net Standard中调用的方法已经改变(从1.6开始)。我们还可以使用c# 6的空条件操作符。

using System.Reflection; 
public static object GetPropValue(object src, string propName)
{
    return src.GetType().GetRuntimeProperty(propName)?.GetValue(src);
}