Swift 3:对我来说，当你把它放在cellForRowAtIndexPath:方法中时，它就工作了

let view = UIView()
view.backgroundColor = UIColor.red
cell.selectedBackgroundView = view

如果您想向单元格添加自定义高亮显示的颜色(且单元格包含按钮、标签、图像等)。我按照下面的步骤:

例如，如果你想要一个选定的黄色:

1)创建一个适合所有不透明度为20%的单元格(黄色)的视图，例如backgroundselectedView

2)在单元控制器中这样写:

- (void)touchesBegan:(NSSet *)touches withEvent:(UIEvent *)event
{
     self.backgroundselectedView.alpha=1;
    [super touchesBegan:touches withEvent:event];
}

- (void)touchesEnded:(NSSet *)touches withEvent:(UIEvent *)event
{
    self.backgroundselectedView.alpha=0;
    [super touchesEnded:touches withEvent:event];
}

- (void)touchesCancelled:(NSSet *)touches withEvent:(UIEvent *)event
{
    self.backgroundSelectedImage.alpha=0;
    [super touchesCancelled:touches withEvent:event];
}

- (void)tableView:(UITableView *)tableView didSelectRowAtIndexPath:(NSIndexPath *)indexPath
{
    [tableView reloadData];
    UITableViewCell *cell=(UITableViewCell*)[tableView cellForRowAtIndexPath:indexPath];
    [cell setBackgroundColor:[UIColor orangeColor]];
}

下面是分组表所需的代码的重要部分。当一个部分中的任何单元格被选中时，第一行将改变颜色。如果没有最初设置cellselectionstyle为none，当用户单击row0时，单元格更改为bgColorView，然后淡入并重新加载bgColorView时，会出现恼人的双重重载。祝你好运，如果有更简单的方法，请告诉我。

- (UITableViewCell *)tableView:(UITableView *)tableView cellForRowAtIndexPath:(NSIndexPath *)indexPath 
{

    static NSString *CellIdentifier = @"Cell";

    UITableViewCell *cell = [tableView dequeueReusableCellWithIdentifier:CellIdentifier];
    if (cell == nil) {
        cell = [[UITableViewCell alloc] initWithStyle:UITableViewCellStyleDefault reuseIdentifier:CellIdentifier];
    }

    if ([indexPath row] == 0) 
    {
        cell.selectionStyle = UITableViewCellSelectionStyleNone;

        UIView *bgColorView = [[UIView alloc] init];
        bgColorView.layer.cornerRadius = 7;
        bgColorView.layer.masksToBounds = YES;
        [bgColorView setBackgroundColor:[UIColor colorWithRed:.85 green:0 blue:0 alpha:1]];
        [cell setSelectedBackgroundView:bgColorView];

        UIColor *backColor = [UIColor colorWithRed:0 green:0 blue:1 alpha:1];
        cell.backgroundColor = backColor;
        UIColor *foreColor = [UIColor colorWithWhite:1 alpha:1];
        cell.textLabel.textColor = foreColor;

        cell.textLabel.text = @"row0";
    }
    else if ([indexPath row] == 1) 
    {
        cell.selectionStyle = UITableViewCellSelectionStyleNone;

        UIColor *backColor = [UIColor colorWithRed:1 green:1 blue:1 alpha:1];
        cell.backgroundColor = backColor;
        UIColor *foreColor = [UIColor colorWithRed:0 green:0 blue:0 alpha:1];
        cell.textLabel.textColor = foreColor;

        cell.textLabel.text = @"row1";
    }
    else if ([indexPath row] == 2) 
    {
        cell.selectionStyle = UITableViewCellSelectionStyleNone;

        UIColor *backColor = [UIColor colorWithRed:1 green:1 blue:1 alpha:1];
        cell.backgroundColor = backColor;
        UIColor *foreColor = [UIColor colorWithRed:0 green:0 blue:0 alpha:1];
        cell.textLabel.textColor = foreColor;

        cell.textLabel.text = @"row2";
    }
    return cell;
}

#pragma mark Table view delegate

- (void)tableView:(UITableView *)tableView didSelectRowAtIndexPath:(NSIndexPath *)indexPath
{
    NSIndexPath *path = [NSIndexPath indexPathForRow:0 inSection:[indexPath section]];
    UITableViewCell *cell = [tableView cellForRowAtIndexPath:path];
    [cell setSelectionStyle:UITableViewCellSelectionStyleBlue];

    [tableView selectRowAtIndexPath:path animated:YES scrollPosition:UITableViewScrollPositionNone];

}

- (void)tableView:(UITableView *)tableView didDeselectRowAtIndexPath:(NSIndexPath *)indexPath
{
    UITableViewCell *cell = [tvStat cellForRowAtIndexPath:indexPath];
    [cell setSelectionStyle:UITableViewCellSelectionStyleNone];
}

#pragma mark Table view Gestures

-(IBAction)singleTapFrom:(UIGestureRecognizer *)tapRecog
{

    CGPoint tapLoc = [tapRecog locationInView:tvStat];
    NSIndexPath *tapPath = [tvStat indexPathForRowAtPoint:tapLoc];

    NSIndexPath *seleRow = [tvStat indexPathForSelectedRow];
    if([seleRow section] != [tapPath section])
        [self tableView:tvStat didDeselectRowAtIndexPath:seleRow];
    else if (seleRow == nil )
        {}
    else if([seleRow section] == [tapPath section] || [seleRow length] != 0)
        return;

    if(!tapPath)
        [self.view endEditing:YES];

    [self tableView:tvStat didSelectRowAtIndexPath:tapPath];
}

我想指出的是，XIB编辑器为您提供了以下标准选项:

部分:蓝色/灰色/没有

(右边有选项的列，第4个标签，第一组“表格视图单元格”，第4个子组，3个项目中的第一个读为“选择”)

也许你想做的事情可以通过选择正确的标准选项来实现。

I've got a slightly different approach than everyone else that reflects the selection on touch rather than after being selected. I have a subclassed UITableViewCell. All you have to do is set the background color in the touch events, which simulates selection on touch, and then set the background color in the setSelected function. Setting the background color in the selSelected function allows for deselecting the cell. Make sure to pass the touch event to the super, otherwise the cell won't actually act as if its selected.

override func touchesBegan(touches: NSSet, withEvent event: UIEvent) {
    self.backgroundColor = UIColor(white: 0.0, alpha: 0.1)
    super.touchesBegan(touches, withEvent: event)
}

override func touchesCancelled(touches: NSSet!, withEvent event: UIEvent!) {
    self.backgroundColor = UIColor.clearColor()
    super.touchesCancelled(touches, withEvent: event)
}

override func setSelected(selected: Bool, animated: Bool) {
    super.setSelected(selected, animated: animated)

    // Configure the view for the selected state
    self.backgroundColor = selected ? UIColor(white: 0.0, alpha: 0.1) : UIColor.clearColor()
}