结合不同的答案可以得出:

new Handler().postDelayed(() -> {
  myViewPager.setCurrentItem(position, true);
  myTabLayout.setScrollPosition(position, 0f, true);
},
100);

如果您在理解上有困难，这段代码可以帮助您

private void MyTabLayout(){
    TabLayout.Tab myTab = myTabLayout.newTab(); // create a new tab
    myTabLayout.addTab(myTab); // add my new tab to myTabLayout
    myTab.setText("new tab"); 
    myTab.select(); // select the new tab
}

你也可以在你的代码中添加这个:

myTabLayout.setTabTextColors(getColor(R.color.colorNormalTab),getColor(R.color.colorSelectedTab));

如果你知道你想要选择的标签的索引，你可以这样做:

TabLayout tabLayout = (TabLayout) findViewById(R.id.tabs);
TabLayout.Tab tab = tabLayout.getTabAt(someIndex);
tab.select();

即使你使用TabLayout本身而没有ViewPager(这是非典型的，可能是不好的做法，但我见过这样做)，这种技术也是有效的。

这将不工作的应用程序，有ViewPager2实现，为此，你需要使用

viewPager2.setCurrentItem(position);

当我们使用TabLayoutMediator时，在onConfigureTab中找到onConfigureTab

i.e

TabLayoutMediator tabLayoutMediator = new TabLayoutMediator(
                tabLayout, viewPager2, new TabLayoutMediator.TabConfigurationStrategy() {
            @Override
            public void onConfigureTab(@NonNull TabLayout.Tab tab, int position) {
                switch (position){
                    case 0 : tab.setIcon(getResources().getDrawable(R.drawable.camera));
                            break;
                    case 1 : tab.setText("CHAT");
                            viewPager2.setCurrentItem(position); // when app starts this will be the selected tab
                            break;
                    case 2 : tab.setText("STATUS");
                            break;
                    case 3 : tab.setText("CALL");
                        break;
                }
            }
        }
        );
        tabLayoutMediator.attach();

默认情况下，如果你选择一个选项卡，它将高亮显示。如果你想选择显式意味着使用给定的注释代码在onTabSelected(TabLayout。标签标签)与您指定的标签索引位置。这段代码将解释使用viewpager在选项卡选择位置上更改片段。

public class GalleryFragment extends Fragment implements TabLayout.OnTabSelectedListener 
{
private ViewPager viewPager;public ViewPagerAdapter adapter;private TabLayout tabLayout;
@Override
public View onCreateView(LayoutInflater inflater, ViewGroup container,
                         Bundle savedInstanceState) {
View rootView = inflater.inflate(R.layout.fragment_gallery, container, false);
viewPager = (ViewPager) rootView.findViewById(R.id.viewpager);
adapter = new ViewPagerAdapter(getChildFragmentManager());
adapter.addFragment(new PaymentCardFragment(), "PAYMENT CARDS");
adapter.addFragment(new LoyaltyCardFragment(), "LOYALTY CARDS");
viewPager.setAdapter(adapter);
tabLayout = (TabLayout) rootView.findViewById(R.id.tabs);
    tabLayout.setupWithViewPager(viewPager);
    tabLayout.setOnTabSelectedListener(this);
}

@Override
public void onTabSelected(TabLayout.Tab tab) {
    //This will be called 2nd when you select a tab or swipe using viewpager
    final int position = tab.getPosition();
    Log.i("card", "Tablayout pos: " + position);
    //TabLayout.Tab tabdata=tabLayout.getTabAt(position);
    //tabdata.select();
    tabLayout.post(new Runnable() {
        @Override
        public void run() {
            if (position == 0) {
                PaymentCardFragment paymentCardFragment = getPaymentCardFragment();
                if (paymentCardFragment != null) {
                   VerticalViewpager vp = paymentCardFragment.mypager;
                    if(vp!=null)
                    {
                      //vp.setCurrentItem(position,true);
                      vp.setCurrentItem(vp.getAdapter().getCount()-1,true);
                    }
                  }
            }
            if (position == 1) {
               LoyaltyCardFragment loyaltyCardFragment = getLoyaltyCardFragment();
                if (loyaltyCardFragment != null) {
                   VerticalViewpager vp = loyaltyCardFragment.mypager;
                    if(vp!=null)
                    {
                        vp.setCurrentItem(position);
                    }
                  }
            }
        }
    });
}

@Override
public void onTabUnselected(TabLayout.Tab tab) {
 //This will be called 1st when you select a tab or swipe using viewpager
}
@Override
public void onTabReselected(TabLayout.Tab tab) {
  //This will be called only when you select the already selected tab(Ex: selecting 3rd tab again and again)
}
 private PaymentCardFragment getLoyaltyCardFragment() {
    Fragment f = adapter.mFragmentList.get(viewPager.getCurrentItem());

   if(f instanceof PaymentCardFragment)
   {
    return (PaymentCardFragment) f;
   }
   return null;
 }
private LoyaltyCardFragment getPaymentCardFragment() {
    Fragment f = adapter.mFragmentList.get(viewPager.getCurrentItem());
    if(f instanceof LoyaltyCardFragment)
   {
    return (LoyaltyCardFragment) f;
   }
   return null;
 }
  class ViewPagerAdapter extends FragmentPagerAdapter {
   public List<Fragment> mFragmentList = new ArrayList<>();
    private final List<String> mFragmentTitleList = new ArrayList<>();
   public void addFragment(Fragment fragment, String title) {
   mFragmentList.add(fragment);
   mFragmentTitleList.add(title);
  }
 }
}

只需设置viewpage . setcurrentitem (index)和相关的TabLayout将选择各自的选项卡。