我之前接受的答案行不通。它仍在等待回应。这虽然工作，采取从我如何使一个异步GET请求在PHP?

function post_without_wait($url, $params)
{
    foreach ($params as $key => &$val) {
      if (is_array($val)) $val = implode(',', $val);
        $post_params[] = $key.'='.urlencode($val);
    }
    $post_string = implode('&', $post_params);

    $parts=parse_url($url);

    $fp = fsockopen($parts['host'],
        isset($parts['port'])?$parts['port']:80,
        $errno, $errstr, 30);

    $out = "POST ".$parts['path']." HTTP/1.1\r\n";
    $out.= "Host: ".$parts['host']."\r\n";
    $out.= "Content-Type: application/x-www-form-urlencoded\r\n";
    $out.= "Content-Length: ".strlen($post_string)."\r\n";
    $out.= "Connection: Close\r\n\r\n";
    if (isset($post_string)) $out.= $post_string;

    fwrite($fp, $out);
    fclose($fp);
}

您可以使用exec()来调用一些可以执行HTTP请求的东西，如wget，但必须将程序的所有输出指向某个地方，如文件或/dev/null，否则PHP进程将等待该输出。

如果你想把进程和apache线程完全分开，可以尝试这样做(我不确定，但我希望你能明白):

exec('bash -c "wget -O (url goes here) > /dev/null 2>&1 &"');

这不是一项很好的业务，您可能需要类似cron作业的东西来调用heartbeat脚本，该脚本轮询实际的数据库事件队列来执行真正的异步事件。

/**
 * Asynchronously execute/include a PHP file. Does not record the output of the file anywhere. 
 *
 * @param string $filename              file to execute, relative to calling script
 * @param string $options               (optional) arguments to pass to file via the command line
 */ 
function asyncInclude($filename, $options = '') {
    exec("/path/to/php -f {$filename} {$options} >> /dev/null &");
}

如果你控制了你想要异步调用的目标(例如你自己的"longtask.php")，你可以从那端关闭连接，两个脚本将并行运行。它是这样工作的:

quick.php通过cURL打开longtask.php(这里没有魔法) php关闭连接并继续(神奇!) 当连接关闭时，cURL返回quick.php 两项任务同时进行

我试过了，效果不错。但是quick.php不会知道longtask.php正在做什么，除非您在进程之间创建一些通信方式。

在执行其他操作之前，请先在longtask.php中尝试这段代码。它将关闭连接，但仍然继续运行(并抑制任何输出):

while(ob_get_level()) ob_end_clean();
header('Connection: close');
ignore_user_abort();
ob_start();
echo('Connection Closed');
$size = ob_get_length();
header("Content-Length: $size");
ob_end_flush();
flush();

代码复制自PHP手册的用户贡献注释，并进行了一些改进。

你可以在PHP中使用非阻塞套接字和pecl扩展之一:

http://php.net/event http://php.net/libevent http://php.net/ev https://github.com/m4rw3r/php-libev

您可以使用库，它为您的代码和pecl扩展之间提供了一个抽象层:https://github.com/reactphp/event-loop

您还可以使用基于前面库的异步http-client: https://github.com/reactphp/http-client

查看ReactPHP的其他库:http://reactphp.org

使用异步模型时要小心。 我推荐在youtube上看这个视频:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWNcItWuKpI

这是我自己的PHP函数，当我做POST到任何页面的特定URL .... 示例:my Function的***用法…

    <?php
        parse_str("email=myemail@ehehehahaha.com&subject=this is just a test");
        $_POST['email']=$email;
        $_POST['subject']=$subject;
        echo HTTP_POST("http://example.com/mail.php",$_POST);***

    exit;
    ?>
    <?php
    /*********HTTP POST using FSOCKOPEN **************/
    // by ArbZ

function HTTP_Post($URL,$data, $referrer="") {

    // parsing the given URL
    $URL_Info=parse_url($URL);

    // Building referrer
    if($referrer=="") // if not given use this script as referrer
        $referrer=$_SERVER["SCRIPT_URI"];

    // making string from $data
    foreach($data as $key=>$value)
        $values[]="$key=".urlencode($value);
        $data_string=implode("&",$values);

    // Find out which port is needed - if not given use standard (=80)
    if(!isset($URL_Info["port"]))
        $URL_Info["port"]=80;

    // building POST-request: HTTP_HEADERs
    $request.="POST ".$URL_Info["path"]." HTTP/1.1\n";
    $request.="Host: ".$URL_Info["host"]."\n";
    $request.="Referer: $referer\n";
    $request.="Content-type: application/x-www-form-urlencoded\n";
    $request.="Content-length: ".strlen($data_string)."\n";
    $request.="Connection: close\n";
    $request.="\n";
    $request.=$data_string."\n";

    $fp = fsockopen($URL_Info["host"],$URL_Info["port"]);
    fputs($fp, $request);
    while(!feof($fp)) {
        $result .= fgets($fp, 128);
    }
    fclose($fp); //$eco = nl2br();


    function getTextBetweenTags($string, $tagname) {
        $pattern = "/<$tagname ?.*>(.*)<\/$tagname>/";
        preg_match($pattern, $string, $matches);
        return $matches[1];
    }
    //STORE THE FETCHED CONTENTS to a VARIABLE, because its way better and fast...
    $str = $result;
    $txt = getTextBetweenTags($str, "span"); $eco = $txt;  $result = explode("&",$result);
    return $result[1];
    <span style=background-color:LightYellow;color:blue>".trim($_GET['em'])."</span>
    </pre> "; 
}
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