为我解决这个问题的是，一些提供商在使用php邮件时不允许外部收件人:

将代码中的收件人($收件人)更改为本地收件人。这意味着使用来自服务器域的电子邮件地址，例如，如果您的服务器域是www.yourdomain.com，那么收件人的电子邮件地址应该是someone@yourdomain.com。 请上传修改后的php文件，然后重试。 如果仍然不工作:将发件人($sender)更改为本地电子邮件(使用与收件人相同的电子邮件)。 请上传修改后的php文件，然后重试。

希望这能有所帮助! https://www.arclab.com/en/kb/php/how-to-test-and-fix-php-mail-function.html

把这两件事分开和一起尝试:

删除if($_POST['submit']){} 移除$from(只是我的直觉)

你可以使用PHPMailer，它工作得很完美，这里有一个代码示例:

<?php
use PHPMailer\PHPMailer\PHPMailer;
use PHPMailer\PHPMailer\Exception;

require 'vendor/phpmailer/phpmailer/src/Exception.php';
require 'vendor/phpmailer/phpmailer/src/PHPMailer.php';
require 'vendor/phpmailer/phpmailer/src/SMTP.php';
$editor = $_POST["editor"];
$subject = $_POST["subject"];
$to = $_POST["to"];

try {

    if ($_SERVER["REQUEST_METHOD"] == "POST") {

        $mail = new PHPMailer();
        $mail->IsSMTP();
        $mail->Mailer = "smtp";
        $mail->SMTPDebug  = 1;
        $mail->SMTPAuth   = TRUE;
        $mail->SMTPSecure = "tls";
        $mail->Port       = 587;
        $mail->Host       = "smtp.gmail.com";//using smtp server
        $mail->Username   = "XXXXXXXXXX@gmail.com";//the email which will send the email 
        $mail->Password   = "XXXXXXXXXX";//the password

        $mail->IsHTML(true);
        $mail->AddAddress($to, "recipient-name");
        $mail->SetFrom("XXXXXXXXXX@gmail.com", "from-name");
        $mail->AddReplyTo("XXXXXXXXXX@gmail.com", "reply-to-name");
        $mail->Subject = $subject;
        $mail->MsgHTML($editor);




        if (!$mail->Send()) {
            echo "Error while sending Email.";
            var_dump($mail);
        } else {
            echo "Email sent successfully";
        }
    }
} catch (Exception $e) {
    echo $e->getMessage();
}

在邮件功能中添加邮件头。

$header = "From: noreply@example.com\r\n";
$header.= "MIME-Version: 1.0\r\n";
$header.= "Content-Type: text/html; charset=ISO-8859-1\r\n";
$header.= "X-Priority: 1\r\n";

$status = mail($to, $subject, $message, $header);

if($status)
{
    echo '<p>Your mail has been sent!</p>';
} else {
    echo '<p>Something went wrong. Please try again!</p>';
}

Debian 10.0.0 ('Buster')的Sendmail安装实际上很简单!

php . ini

[mail function]
sendmail_path=/usr/sbin/sendmail -t -i
; (Other directives are mostly windows)

标准sendmail包安装(允许'send'):

su -                                        # Install as user 'root'
dpkg --list                                 # Is install necessary?
apt-get install sendmail sendmail-cf m4     # Note multiple package selection
sendmailconfig                              # Respond all 'Y' for new install

其他有用的命令:

which sendmail                              # /usr/sbin/sendmail
which sendmailconfig                        # /usr/sbin/sendmailconfig
man sendmail                                # Documentation
systemctl restart sendmail                  # As and when required

验证(发送能力)

echo "Subject: sendmail test" | sendmail -v <yourEmail>@gmail.com

以上花费了大约5分钟。然后我浪费了5个小时…别忘了检查你的垃圾邮件文件夹!

如果使用PHP发送邮件遇到问题，可以考虑使用PHPMailer或SwiftMailer等替代方案。

当我需要用PHP发送邮件时，我通常使用SwiftMailer。

基本用法:

require 'mail/swift_required.php';

$message = Swift_Message::newInstance()
    // The subject of your email
    ->setSubject('Jane Doe sends you a message')
    // The from address(es)
    ->setFrom(array('jane.doe@gmail.com' => 'Jane Doe'))
    // The to address(es)
    ->setTo(array('frank.stevens@gmail.com' => 'Frank Stevens'))
    // Here, you put the content of your email
    ->setBody('<h3>New message</h3><p>Here goes the rest of my message</p>', 'text/html');

if (Swift_Mailer::newInstance(Swift_MailTransport::newInstance())->send($message)) {
    echo json_encode([
        "status" => "OK",
        "message" => 'Your message has been sent!'
    ], JSON_PRETTY_PRINT);
} else {
    echo json_encode([
        "status" => "error",
        "message" => 'Oops! Something went wrong!'
    ], JSON_PRETTY_PRINT);
}

有关如何使用SwiftMailer的更多信息，请参阅官方文档。