最外层布局中的维度在对话框中不起作用。您可以添加一个布局，其中设置的尺寸低于最外层。

<RelativeLayout xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"
android:layout_width="wrap_content"
android:layout_height="wrap_content">

<LinearLayout
    android:layout_width="xxdp"
    android:layout_height="xxdp"
    android:orientation="vertical">

</LinearLayout>

public void onResume() {

    Window window = Objects.requireNonNull(getDialog()).getWindow();
    Point size = new Point();
    assert window != null;
    Display display = window.getWindowManager().getDefaultDisplay();
    display.getSize(size);
    window.setLayout( (int)(size.x * 0.9), (int) (size.y * 0.75));
    window.setGravity( Gravity.CENTER );
    super.onResume();
    

}

在我的案例中，唯一有效的是指向这里的解决方案:http://adilatwork.blogspot.mx/2012/11/android-dialogfragment-dialog-sizing.html

来自Adil博客文章的片段:

@Override
public void onStart()
{
  super.onStart();

  // safety check
  if (getDialog() == null)
    return;

  int dialogWidth = ... // specify a value here
  int dialogHeight = ... // specify a value here

  getDialog().getWindow().setLayout(dialogWidth, dialogHeight);

  // ... other stuff you want to do in your onStart() method
}

Working on Android 6.0, ran into the same issue. AlertDialog would default to predefined width set in the theme regardless of the actual width set in the custom view's root Layout. I was able to get it to set properly adjusting the width of the loading_message TextView. Without investigating further, it seems that sizing the actual elements and having the root Layout wrap around them makes it work as expected. Below is an XML layout of a loading dialog which sets width of the the dialog correctly. Using the this library for the animation.

<RelativeLayout
    xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"
    android:layout_width="wrap_content"
    android:layout_height="wrap_content"
    android:background="@color/custom_color"
    android:padding="@dimen/custom_dimen">
    <com.github.rahatarmanahmed.cpv.CircularProgressView
        xmlns:app="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res-auto"
        android:id="@+id/progress_view"
        android:layout_width="40dp"
        android:layout_height="40dp"
        android:layout_centerHorizontal="true"
        app:cpv_color="@color/white"
        app:cpv_animAutostart="true"
        app:cpv_indeterminate="true" />
    <TextView
        android:id="@+id/loading_message"
        android:layout_width="100dp"
        android:layout_height="wrap_content"
        android:layout_below="@+id/progress_view"
        android:layout_centerHorizontal="true"
        android:gravity="center"
        android:textSize="18dp"
        android:layout_marginTop="@dimen/custom_dimen"
        android:textColor="@color/white"
        android:text="@string/custom_string"/>
</RelativeLayout>

使用RelativeLayout作为DialogFragment的父元素

你可以下面的代码设置布局的宽度和高度从java。

final AlertDialog alertDialog  = alertDialogBuilder.create();
final WindowManager.LayoutParams WMLP = alertDialog.getWindow().getAttributes();

WMLP.gravity = Gravity.TOP;
WMLP.y = mActionBarHeight;
WMLP.x = getResources().getDimensionPixelSize(R.dimen.unknown_image_width);

alertDialog.getWindow().setAttributes(WMLP);
alertDialog.show();